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FAMILY RETREATS

The conversation a family rarely makes time for

An event where families make the biggest decisions together.

Family retreats are a powerful way to build harmony while also planning for the future. Instead of scattered conversations across family groups, a retreat provides opportunity for everyone to share their perspective and agree on the decisions shaping generations to come.

A family retreat creates that time and gives the conversation a structure. The agenda gets built around the decisions actually facing the family, and the session is led by the senior advisor who already knows the situation. Because the same team handles the family's governance, tax, estate, and investment work, what gets decided in the room connects directly to the framework that carries it out.

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What a retreat makes possible

A decision the whole family owns
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Years of postponed questions, addressed in days
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The next generation, brought in deliberately
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Direction the framework can act on
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How the work happens

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The introduction
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The full picture
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Designing the session
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The retreat itself
05
What carries forward

01

The introduction

A retreat usually begins with an introduction and a conversation about what the family is trying to decide. That first discussion is about fit and whether a facilitated session is the right way to address what is in front of the family. You leave knowing what a retreat could accomplish before committing to one.

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The full picture

Before the session is designed, the relevant situation comes into view. The business interests, estate structures, family dynamics, and specific decisions on the table all get understood, often through conversations with individual family members beforehand. The result is an agenda grounded in the family's reality rather than a generic format.

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Designing the session

The retreat gets built around the decisions that matter and the people who need to be part of them. Topics, sequence, participants, and the difficult moments to prepare for all get planned in advance. You arrive at a session shaped for this family rather than a standard format.

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The retreat itself

The conversation happens in a setting away from the day-to-day, led by the senior advisor who knows the situation. Hard topics get raised in a structure built to hold them, with the right specialists available when a question turns to tax, estate, or succession. The family leaves with decisions made and direction set.

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What carries forward

A retreat matters only if it changes what happens next. The decisions made translate into the family's governance, estate, and investment work, handled by the same team. The relationship continues so the next retreat builds on the last rather than starting over.

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The senior advisor who leads the room.

A retreat’s success depends on who is leading it. The senior advisor facilitating the session is someone who already knows the family, the business, and what is at stake, not a facilitator brought in for the day. That familiarity is what lets the harder conversations go where they need to go.

Behind the session is the rest of the firm. Governance, estate planning, business succession, and next generation planning all happen inside one team, so whatever the family decides has the structure to support it immediately. Concentrated client books keep the advisor close enough to the family to know which conversations it is ready to have.

Redondo Beach, CA
Rob Santos
CEO

Rob works with founders, executives, and families navigating concentrated wealth, business exits, and generational planning. He founded Arrowroot in 2013 and leads the firm from Southern California.

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El Dorado Hills, CA
Cassandra Barry
Managing Director

Cassandra works with clients on retirement planning and Medicare strategy, with deep expertise in healthcare cost planning and the tradeoffs that shape later-life decisions. She is a licensed insurance agent with more than 12 years in financial services.

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Gig Harbor, WA
Crystal McMahon, CFP®, EA
Managing Director

Crystal works with individuals, families, and business owners on financial planning, investment management, and tax strategy. She is a CFP® and IRS Enrolled Agent with over two decades of experience.

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Denver, CO
Irene Apergis
COO

Irene oversees operations and regulatory compliance across the firm. She brings more than 22 years of financial services experience across investments, capital markets, operations, management, and sales.

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Charlottesville, VA
Mark McCarron, CFP®, EA
Partner, Managing Director

Mark works with families and business owners on financial planning, portfolio management, and tax strategy, with a particular focus on cash flow and long-range projections. He is a CFP® and IRS Enrolled Agent.

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Rochester Hills, MI
Diane Young, AIF®
Partner, Managing Director

Diane works with individuals, families, executives, and retirees on retirement planning, investment strategy, and long-term wealth management. She is an Accredited Investment Fiduciary® with over 30 years of experience.

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How it all connects

Family Retreats

Business Succession

CFO Services

Next Generation Planning

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Concierge Services

Charitable Giving

Investment Management

Risk Management

Tax Strategy

Estate Planning

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Family Retreats

Works in concert with governance and next generation planning, giving the structure a place to come alive in person. A retreat turns the framework into a conversation the whole family takes part in, away from the day-to-day. What surfaces there feeds directly into the decisions the family makes in the year that follows.

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Business Succession

Connects the operating company to the personal financial life it eventually funds. Succession is rarely a single event, and the years around it carry tax, estate, and liquidity decisions that compound. The framework coordinates the company side and the family side so the handoff happens on the family's terms.

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CFO Services

Touches the family's businesses, cash flow, and reporting at the operational level. Daily financial oversight is where small issues either get caught early or quietly compound. The framework keeps the operating numbers connected to the family's longer financial picture.

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Concierge Services

Carries the administrative weight that complex financial lives generate. Bill payment, document management, and the logistics of multiple properties and entities take real time and attention. The framework absorbs that load so the family directs the operation rather than running it.

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Investment Management

Anchored to the obligations the portfolio has to meet across the family's lifetime. Holdings fund retirement income, gifting, philanthropy, and the unexpected on schedules that match real life. Risk gets calibrated to the work the money has to do, and tax runs through every position.

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Estate Planning

Touches every other practice the moment something changes. Estate structures only work if the tax, investment, and ownership positions behind them stay aligned. The framework keeps documents and entities current as the family and the assets shift.

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Tax Strategy

Threads through every investment decision, every entity, and every estate document. Tax efficiency at this level depends on timing and coordination as much as the individual choice. The framework is built so the math holds up across decades rather than a single filing year.

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Risk Management

Protects what the family has built when something goes wrong. Coverage and exposure get sized to the real picture across businesses, properties, dependents, and estate liquidity. The framework keeps protection matched to the situation as obligations change.

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Charitable Giving

Connects the family's philanthropy to its tax position, its estate plan, and the next generation. The structures built around giving outlast the impulses that began it. The framework keeps the giving coordinated with everything else rather than left to the side.

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Next Generation Planning

Pairs with family governance and estate planning to prepare the people who will inherit. Readiness is built over years, through gradual involvement rather than a single handoff. The framework brings the next generation in on a cadence that respects where they are.

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